Learning To Drive

My 15 year old got his driver's training permit last week which is both exciting and scary at the same time. For the next 6 months before he turns 16, he is allowed to practive driving with someone over 25 in the car (us). In the last week as we have driven together, I have been reminded of a big perk that goes along with this that I enjoyed when my daughter was learning to drive- It is great 1 on 1 time with your teenager. I have found a trend during teenage years as far as them wanting to spend time with their parents. The curve is in the shape of a U. As an early teen they still don't mind hanging with you (ages 13, early 14). Ages 15-16 it takes a sharp dive and you are pretty much the rule enforcer and seen as limiting their fun. A few years ago on my daughter's cell phone contact list I saw for me she had listed "The General" (instead of Mom). But at age 17 she is pretty cool to have around and seems to enjoy our company again.... So back to driving-my son is 15 and we are the bottom of the U. Between school, sports, and friends, we get little grunts as far as how his day went and little spurts of communication. But suddenly he wants to be with us because we have THE KEYS! I love this time with him that he actually requests! This 1 on 1 time in the car I find him talkative and outgoing. Of course the downside is HE DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO DRIVE! He is actually pretty good for a beginner, but as an admitted back seat driver, it is a white knuckling experience, but worth it.